Throw away the personality form that you have now.  Stop trying to think of yourself as being a certain kind of person.  You change constantly.  The only reason you fixate is because your mind tells you that you're a certain kind of person.  The reason the child grows more quickly than you do is that the child isn't fixated.  She doesn't think, "I am this, I am not this, I like chocolate, I don't like vanilla."  The child is too busy trying everything.

- "The Caretaker Personality", The Lakshmi Series